From the success of Temptation Island to the extra-dark chronicles of sudden public domain, there is a smell of betrayal in the air. But infidelity seems the norm.
Whether we like it or not, betrayal has always existed and will always exist. And whether we like it or not the summer horns grow dizzyingly. Despite the heat, the sweaty armpits, the cellulite exhibited, this is the season that awakens the hormone. At the sea, soaking in the first meters of water, they are the main topic, naturally together with the sophisticated accounts to understand how much retirement is missing. Horns and INPS.
The test is in the share of Temptation Islandthe last edition was the most views ever, reaching the final in the final 32.9 percent sharewith over 4 million spectators. We could call it the Sanremo dei Cornutiis certainly the format that best suits the Italian people, the surgical representation of couple relationships today. And this time he comes out the winner is the lagnoso male. Plants, escapes towards lost love, “me ‘void’ bride ‘?”, The Tribuna Posillipo and the gazebo swept away by the rain. Fediphhags with perfectly spinzetta eyebrows that would live with “confrontation bonfires” also in the dining room, very convinced, as Julio Iglesias sang, who “when a man betrays, betrays halfway” (never happens entirely this verse).
We all looked at him, telling us that he was better than a sociological treatise by Georg Simmel. In truth it is lo trash mirror Where to rimy vices, virtues, sighs and illusions of the Italian middle class, in short of many of us. Because, if to those who are wandering on that morning vowel they opened the chats, as they did to Raoul Bovawould touch the same fate. Yet theinfidelity It has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. As he explains Esther Perelguru of love relationships, in his bestseller So fans everyone. Rethink infidelity (Solferino): «There is a simple act of transgression capable of destroying a relationship, depriving the couple of his happiness. I am talking about the so -called “adventures”, something very common yet little understood ».
According to the psychotherapist, who for over thirty years has been dealing with crisis and separations, the pain and rubble of a betrayal, seeing collapsed on which one has invested, are dynamic to be analyzed carefully. The escapades help us to understand who we are, what we would have liked on the other or what we thought we had to deserve. And, according to the teacher, they must be treated with a more human approach.
Instead what leaves us amazed is that basically today there is no pain. Even the betrayal, like everything else, has become a small thing, to be consumed and shown quickly. The horn They are a way like any other for a willing roughness to try the social climb (you will understand that ascended the one on social networks). An escamotage to find some energy, they weren’t even a supplement, so explains Lucia, another protagonist of the reality show, which sometimes applied to the parking lots for a breath of freedom. Stuff from Jessico-Calcetto, but the equality At least here it was reached.
According to an investigation of Ashley Madisoninternational leading platform for those looking for extramarital relationships if the 26 percent of men was unfaithful, the women are no different (19 percent the traitors). We would all like to live with butterflies dancing zumba in the belly. And instead in the stomach we suffer not for the pains of love, but for reflux.
The old theory according to which to diversify would strengthen a fruit relationship, returns in vogue with Simone, the blonde terrapiattista, elected summer idol, who, after having closed in the bathroom with a temptress, discovers that her angel of the hearth, Sonia B, is pregnant. And tout if tient.
There monogamy It is the rule, but infidelity now seems to practice. And if at the dinners on the terrace you listened to Loop the message that Bova sent to Martina Ceretti (not denied, that we heard), in the end we all touched ourselves a little worried about the forehead. Because at least once in life we have been deer in spring (or rather Summer Mufloni).
While on sex we demonstrate champions of freedom and polyamore, theinfidelity It is cloaked by a veil of shame. So the two lovers taken at the concert of Coldplay They were burned by the flames of social networks. They have lost everything and above all they are already in oblivion.
At this point how not to mention Alessio LoparcoApulian lawyer, who recalls in the intensity of the Pacino in The Godfather – Part II When he says: «What do you do? What should I do? ». The only answer could be the story of a (real) betrayal in the province of the north west of the eighties. She is fine, he, he primary of the hospital. After a passionate love conference, they brought them stuck on a stretcher in the only area of the area, the one where he practiced. Whispers and laughter, the news crossed the plain and even without social media ended up on some gossip weekly (the unforgettable, iconic Stop).
Yet the husband for life pretended nothing. Neither scene, nor bonfires. Thinking about his heart that basically the Corna Slanciano.
