In July Martina Colombari will turn fifty years. So the former Miss Italy tells each other: the challenges faced with his son Achille, the marriage with Billy Costacurta and the change of the concept of beauty
Martina Colombari approaches the finish line of the fifty years with a life full of experiences and roles that she has been able to balance with determination. Mother, wife, actress and volunteer engaged in social, has faced moments of fragility and of great strength, always finding a balance.
Maternity is one of the most significant aspects of his life and the starting point of his story. «Achilles is better. His is the story of many teenagers and post-adolescent in a complicated world. The social networks have fierce because he is the son of two famous people, but of situations like his own there are many, “he explained to the courier. The path was demanding, but Martina and her husband, Billy Costacurtathey never stopped supporting him: «We were close to him as we could, doing what we had to understand his discomfort. Now everything is cleareris followed by the right people. It took time ». On parenting he has precise ideas: «Keep ready. A parent is not a carabiniere, he owes at a certain point to hold back ».
Aware that you cannot have everything under control, Martina admits to be a person organized by nature: «It is my comfort zone. We still didn’t leave for the tour and I have already booked the restaurants where we will eat everywhere. But I have to become more tolerant, not everything can depend on me ». And the time passes? “I don’t know if I’m ready for this step. Needless to deny it, it is a boa tour that does not go unnoticed. And for a woman it is more difficult to manage it, both physically and mentally. You have to prepare ». The key to dealing with it? Take care of yourself: «My lifestyle is an investment and gives me security. And it is appropriate to contact a gynecologist specialized in menopause. I do a therapy with biohydementic hormones ». A theme that touches it up close, having been one of the Miss Italy more iconic. Over time, however, his concept of beauty has changed: “I exploited my beauty as if it had been a talent, even if it is not. I made sure to use it in the roles I needed. But in our environment unfortunately if you are beautiful you do not come considered credible ».
His marriage to Costacurta is among the most solid of the show, with almost thirty years of life together. «We are almost a unicum in the midst of a universe of divorced and separated … I am Romagnola, he Paduan/Friulian, I am expansive, self -centered, he at all. We balance ourselves. We have an intimacy and serenity that have made our love evolve. And now I wouldn’t want a feeling equal to when I was 20 years old. Treating is love, taking time for itself knowing that the other is fine, it is love ». And the passion? “We don’t jump on all the nights. But physically he still likes a lot. Also for this I always go to the gym, I would not be able to endure that a 30 -year -old lover was … ».
In his sentimental past, the relationship with Alberto Tomba stands outlived as a modern fairy tale: «A fairy tale to Disney, the champion and the most beautiful in Italy. Ours was a true love. My first boyfriend, the first with whom I made love ». After him, a period of freedom: “In the middle I had a year in which I changed a boy once a month”. Then Billy came, the man with whom he built his life.
Looking to the future, Martina still has many dreams. For his fiftieth birthday he would like to live a special experience: “Achille a few months ago had booked a launch with the parachute, then nothing was done for the bad weather … and I would like to go back to Haiti, where I was with the Rava Foundation”. Always ready for new challenges, he continues to get involved, following the thought of Rita Levi Montalcini who made his own: “Better to add life to the days that days to life”.
